Category: Let's talk
There have been many times whre I've seen topics such as "What do you look for in a partner". So I was wondering completely the opposite. How would a person put you off wanting to have a relationship with them? What could a person do to make you not want to be with them? What aspects of a person including that persons behaviour and lifestyle would make you want to reject them?
The kind who slaps me about in the name of love...
a person who approaches me in a sexual flirting way has never and will never get a chance from me
why? they are usually all talk and very little backbone
There are a lot of things that turn me off from getting with a guy!!! Pushyness, (Badgering me about spending time alone with me when I don't feel comfortable doing so) Guys who have a lot of insecurities, (Always asking me if I'm ignoring them or why I haven't called) Men who always talk about their X-girlfriends, (That pisses me off a lot!!!) their voice, (Ok, I'll admit it, I go for a guy's voice!!! If he can't put expression in his voice, then forget about him!!!) depending on his mom for everything, (If he's 19 and still has his mom take us out on a date, then he won't be in the picture!!!) closed-minded, (Not willing to accept me and my beliefs and always trying to change me.) ... Yes, I am very picky!!! I know!!! But It's well worth it in the end!!!
*sexy*
Anyone who acts the slightest bit like me.
Someone who only thinks about himself, expects me to do everything for him without voluntarily helping me (like with housework, children, etc), is rude and has no respect for others or manners, drinks or smokes )I don't mind if they drink a glass of wine with a meal or something but I mean like drinking just to do it or getting drunk; the smoking I would not want period), and who is irresponsible (whether it's with money or because of making excuses).
Leilani
@goblin, yes just because this are to superficial people. A relationship needs more than flirting.
I don't want anyone who is greedy, inconsiderate, tries to hard to be someone their not, coldhearted, dishonest, and close minded. and I hate when guys are unneat and not hygenic. they've got to be clean and care about themselves and others.
true but its not a bad start...
i wouldnt want a girl who smokes, drinks heavily, or doesnt respect herself/others.
well turn offs for me are, being unclean, largely over weight, bad voice, and someone who is anti-sexual!
hmmm yeh, i gotta say voice does it for me too, and overweight ... definitely would have an impact. smoking is a definite no no, as is someone who does drugs.
Yeah. I forgot, no drugs either unless it's medicine. And they would have to take care of themselves as well. Also, I'm not into guys that are shorter than me; that'd just make me feel weird. And, I've never thought much about the voice, but I guess it'd at least have to sound nice. *smiles*
Leilani
anyone who acts the slightest bit like goblin!
omg, Harp. LOL. Uh, but seriously. here's what I don't like in a partner. A man who is unsure of what he wants, a man who follows me around like a puppy dog, (not even letting me out of there sight to go to the bathroom for instance) LOL. On the same note however, I also don't want a man to neglect me and not spend time with me. I also can't stand a man who is not clean. Ewww, A man who puts Sex in the forefront, and can't respect my dicition to want to wait, will never get a glance from me either. I also would never be with a man that doesn't want kids. My daughter and I are a package deal, and if he wants me, he has to exept and love her too. I will not be with a slob, or someone who expects me to clean up after him. Anyways, Those are most. LOL.
oh no! that means i've got a good chance with BG! *runs the other way*
Man it sounds I think You lot should go looking on Walton's mountain..or you could have some rogue stem cell scientist create this prefect bloke..
see there is a reason for cloaning. insurt your favorit pop star and fill up the tank!
Hm, well. I would not want to have a violent guy who takes drugs, or who's cheating, or one who would only care for the looks.
Good 1 ohh how I would love a clone of Marilyn Manson all to my naughty self....
Come on rdfreak you know there worse things, I just can't think of any right now.
Well, if I were single and looking, I'd rather not be with anyone who was constantly insecure and basically emotionally nedy and dependent on me totally for their happiness. I can contribute to happiness but not create it where there is none within that person.
Anyone whose human, lol. *bleh* to people and their lying, cheating ways. I'll just love my computer, my mountains, my nature, and my dreams. Everyone, or thing, else can go jump in the river if they want a relationship with me.
I agree with everything on here except the dating a guy shorter than me part, and the asking a mom to drive us somewhere part. Also, the weight would depend on how much. I love the voice and the hands. I would hate a guy who si controlling and does not respect my right to make my own choices, and who has the "what she doesn't know won't hrt her" attitude. But I'm not single, so it doesn't really matter.
hahah I forgot another thing!!! A guy with long hair!!!! Ug!!! Keep it short if you wanna be wit me!!!
*sexy*
a guy who smokes, taking drugs, lying and dishonest to this partner, having long hair, do not know how to take care of their own, depending alot on me, and unclean. all these can draw me crazy
Well I can't dislike overweight people as I am overweight myself, but I think if they can still walk well, then it's their thing, lol. No, I think the character counts ... no matter how sexy a guy is, if he is rude, I would never ever have a relationship with him.